How is Your Relational Chemistry?

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Human beings are social animals and they value relationships. More so, why an aspiring leader - be it in business, church, or politics should build good relationships.

Good leadership is built on relationships. People won't go along with you if they can't get along with you. In other words, they must be a common ground.

The key to sparking this chemistry with people or your would-be followers is to develop relationships with them. If you can get close to them, feel their plight, and respect their sensitivities without breaching your integrity, you'll be able to lead up.

All people have dreams, issues, or causes that connect them with you. Show that you are genuinely concerned about their experiences by not approaching them casually or suggesting that you do so for personal gain.

Ideally, leaders should see the need to connect with the people they lead, and not the other way around. A true leader is the servant of the people and not their master. But in many places today, the reverse seems to be the norm.

To be a good leader you must take it upon yourself to connect with the people you lead or intend to lead. It simply shows you care about them. Also, it can mean they are important to you and not something people can forget in a hurry. The memory and feelings can linger in their minds for a long time.

Remember, people won't go along with you if you can't get along with them; feel their pain and pulse.

As a leader or an aspiring one, start to build relationships today. It might take time but it surely does pay. Festina lente - make haste slowly. Taking time to build effective relationships is one of the ways to organically garner followers.

Make at least two new friends today. And don't forget that first impression matters. 

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